In order:
Having replaced both the idler and the draglink, I think you're making mountains out of molehills. The draglink to idler was certainly tight and took a few blows to separate, but it was far easier than a suspension joint that has carried a car's weight for 40 years.
I'd prefer to replace the sleeve considering the cost of the idler, but so far, no-one has suggested a supplier or price. And mine is good, having replaced it 2 years ago. I'm starting to wish I'd kept the old idler so I could play about with it, but scrap goes straight in the bin. Vices aren't made for pressing operations, and you can bend the leadscrew or even break the casting if too much pressure is required. But we all do it unless a press is available. Mine has easily paid for itself both in money for this sort of job, and in making the this would be done by now if only I had a press jobs easy.
Ball joint boots are readily available, but you have to break free from your dealer. And you have to know what size you want, but that's hardly rocket science. I didn't pay £200 for the draglink either.
You're probably right about the order in which the parts fail, but mine was the draglink joint; it was rattling about in its housing.