To be honest anything can happen. I always think 'well their mother could've just been rushed into hospital' or something. yes, they maybe could just 'not be bothered' and 'get round to it whenever' but I always give it a couple of days. True, on a higher-value item you'd think he's get in touch sooner, but I'd be messaging the second highest bidder to make them aware of the situation, so you've got a plan B.
Sold a car on ebay once only. And yes, the highest bidder never showed, but I messaged the 2nd highest, did it cash, he turned up the next day, and shaking hands and nice. Truth is there's no magic country, state or province called 'ebay' where all the nasty people live. It's the people you walk by in the street every day, there's just as many retarded, mean, grumpy, lazy, arrogant, kind, thoughtful, generous, benevolent, warm, friendly people on ebay as there is in the 'real' world.
No-shows have existed since Caveman Ug promised Caveman Guh two pebbles for his pointy stick and he never paid up. Mind, Caveman Ug was mauled by a sabretoothed tiger earlier that afternoon.
