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[JonArgraig]

I'm in a silly nay rediculas place right now...

I've been seening this girl on and off for the past few years, had some of the most amazing times, shes witty, beautiful, very very inteligent but she wont commit. My firends all think she's just a gold digger and to be fair I can see thier point but I there wrong, she been with me (so to speak) since I was Secuirty trade, to when I was sick and broke, back to know when I'm back on top of my game.

The problem is she wont commit as I said, she thinks nothing of going away for weeks at a time and coming back like nothing as happend, it used to be part of her charm I guess. I've never tried hard to get her to stay put, I think it would spoil what we do have.

It starting to wreck my head,

any way rant over - needed to clear my chest so to speak.

[Danny]

You never tried to get her to stay put but do you wish she would?

you need to ask exactly how she feels about you then, what is it thats stopping her committing? is it something to do with you or something to do with her?

its not fair on you when it has this effect on you, no one likes not knowing exactly where they stand

[Jay w]

you need to be dead straight with her.

If you want commitment then ask for it, if she cant give it then that has to beg the question of why? and the answer may not be what you want to hear though  

if she was a gold digger then i doubt she would hve been involved with you when the bad times were there, she just sound like the sort of person who like their freedom

[JonArgraig]

you need to be dead straight with her.

If you want commitment then ask for it, if she cant give it then that has to beg the question of why? and the answer may not be what you want to hear though  

if she was a gold digger then i doubt she would hve been involved with you when the bad times were there, she just sound like the sort of person who like their freedom

I need to stop posting drunk...

Any way I called her and asked what the deal was.


Turns out the girl talks sense, We both admit we love the chase, in the past we've both made messes of good relationships because we got bored.

She said "Just because I'm not there doesn't mean I'm not yours" ,


Guess she's just starting to get under my skin  :-/

[psychnurse]

you need to be dead straight with her.

If you want commitment then ask for it, if she cant give it then that has to beg the question of why? and the answer may not be what you want to hear though  

if she was a gold digger then i doubt she would hve been involved with you when the bad times were there, she just sound like the sort of person who like their freedom

I need to stop posting drunk...

Any way I called her and asked what the deal was.


Turns out the girl talks sense, We both admit we love the chase, in the past we've both made messes of good relationships because we got bored.

She said "Just because I'm not there doesn't mean I'm not yours" ,


Guess she's just starting to get under my skin  :-/

Ahh. Well all the best to you both matey  

Posting drunk      We have all done it  

[JonArgraig]

Oh well...

going to Leeds this weekend for some r&r...