Not sure this thread is necessary at this stage, its obvious that passions were running high last night, and still are today. Maybe waiting a day or 2 may have been beneficial.
For those that missed it, I deleted the entire thread last night, as, to be perfectly honest, I was far to busy to disecting the abusive threads from the intelligent ones. To be honest, I have far better things to do than keep clearing up the mess
, esp as I was trying to clear up the mess that a VMWare update had made to the server (apologies to Auto Addict who got a rather terse reply down the phone
). The Admins give up significant amounts of their free time to manage this site, and really don't need to have to give up even more to sort out the mess made when people have toy throwing sessions
I never normally publically post specific things about members, but its obvious that Lizzie Zoom and Ljay are never going to see eye to eye. May I respectfully suggest that you avoid each other's posts, seeing as you seem to bite at each other
. I can find evidence of both of you baiting the other. I should add you are not the only 2 who are at each other's throats
The following paragraph is aimed at every single member of OOF: With a community the size we have, obviously we are going to have members who do not agree and do not get along with certain other members. However, the forum guidelines clearly state that being abusive to other members will not be tolerated. Obviously there is a difference between light hearted ribbing, and malicious intent. The decision of the Admin who deals with it is final - if you don't like that....
If any member feels they are being intimidated, please contact the online Admin, or myself, who will look into it. We may or may not agree, and we may or may not have a quiet word with the other parties - purely down to Admin discretion. The Admins know some people are more sensitive than others (we hope our members do as well, and act accordingly). If we are unsure, we may chose to discuss it privately. Thats the way it is, like it or lump it
FFS, we are all supposedly grown-ups
Anyone have an issue with what I have said, my finger is hovering over the ban button, as all of the Admin team have far more important non-OOF things going on to waste excessive amounts of time sorting out childish bickering
Apologies to Hotel21 for deleting his thread about the Ladybord books - sorry mate, I really had too much on to be able to sort the valid threads from the intolerable ones
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