I’ve only ever had one genuine ballpoint fail. And I ran all mine on genuine wishbones, which just kept getting refurbed apart from the first time when I bought a pair (back when they were dirt cheap).
That’s where I get that idea from.
Virtually all of the shagged ball joints I’ve seen have been on pattern arms. Most of them the shit provided (when they can be arsed to post) by ATP
Had no issues with Febi or Delphi ball joints fitted to aftermarket arms.
I didn't have the budget to spend £500 on wishbones so was quite happy to accept the life expectancy of cheaper arms and refurbish them as required.
I thought that wishbones that had the harder polly bushes fitted had a tendency to crack

Only if you fit them to the back,
This.
A vast improvement at the time, but only lasted about 7k miles. I don't recall the make of the wishbone that failed, but it could have been anything from GM to ATP special.
However, when fitted, those rear polys made one hell of a difference to the way the car drove.