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Re: Feel like Marie now.
« Reply #15 on: 11 January 2009, 00:56:57 »

Mike i have done that loads of time too and have not pretended too have got my mum to have a word it works some times but all the time as my girls was more stubborn and my son , he was very good untill he got to his teens but was not bad as his sisters
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« Reply #16 on: 11 January 2009, 01:20:05 »

We've all been through this ... well those of us with grown up kids  anyway !!!

Nowhere does anyone teach you how to be a parent !!!  You learn as you go along. I was talking to a polish friend a few weeks back who could not understand the problem ... we suddenly realised the difference ... in Poland the Grandparents are THERE and take a great deal of time and interest in both kid and grand kid throughout .. offering support and help .. in UK the grand kids are seen for an hour a mopnth .. or sometimes as a baby sitting service .. but the "extended family" no longer exists, so little "experience" is actively passed on.
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« Reply #17 on: 11 January 2009, 01:34:30 »

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We've all been through this ... well those of us with grown up kids  anyway !!!

Nowhere does anyone teach you how to be a parent !!!  You learn as you go along. I was talking to a polish friend a few weeks back who could not understand the problem ... we suddenly realised the difference ... in Poland the Grandparents are THERE and take a great deal of time and interest in both kid and grand kid throughout .. offering support and help .. in UK the grand kids are seen for an hour a mopnth .. or sometimes as a baby sitting service .. but the "extended family" no longer exists, so little "experience" is actively passed on.

Absolutely right......................a little more complicated, but you have hit the nail on the head . :)
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« Reply #18 on: 11 January 2009, 10:13:55 »

If its any help, I developed insomnia at an early age (6 or 7), and 30yrs later am no better ;D
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« Reply #19 on: 11 January 2009, 12:23:31 »

Denying privilages does work, but hiding toys seems to make little difference
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« Reply #20 on: 11 January 2009, 14:53:47 »

kids you have to treat each one differently. as they are all different!

i had tears at bed time last night it was half ten before he shut up. :(
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« Reply #21 on: 11 January 2009, 15:11:22 »

we got three girls and a boy 23,19,16,an 13 ( the boy ) the two oldest girls no problems no smoke, drink, one uni one cuts hair , charle no problem polite , good as gold!  our 16 year old girl ! f-cking hell what a f-cking nightmare, smokes drinks f-cking liar deceitful , no respect for no one, iv been nose to nose with her ( i know f-cking stupid )
trying to make her understand, and she almost has two fingers up at my face ( you know the look )

  they all very different and all require a different playing field :(
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« Reply #22 on: 11 January 2009, 15:14:06 »

If they (the kids mentioned earlier) are "not tired and can't sleep", then you have to believe them and take their word for it. So as a good responsible parent, what can you do? Simple, make them tired!! Make them get dressed in jogging kit (or the likes) and accompanied by a parent take them for a run, a long run, a long hard run! Normally after the first night they give in, if not and they like it then it could turn into helping you lose the pounds you gained over Christmas. Anyway, make them tired by either exercising the body, or the brain by reading a book.

Good luck  :y
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« Reply #23 on: 11 January 2009, 15:16:33 »

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we got three girls and a boy 23,19,16,an 13 ( the boy ) the two oldest girls no problems no smoke, drink, one uni one cuts hair , charle no problem polite , good as gold!  our 16 year old girl ! f-cking hell what a f-cking nightmare, smokes drinks f-cking liar deceitful , no respect for no one, iv been nose to nose with her ( i know f-cking stupid )
trying to make her understand, and she almost has two fingers up at my face ( you know the look )

  they all very different and all require a different playing field :(

sounds like a bar of soap in the mouth time
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« Reply #24 on: 11 January 2009, 15:16:53 »

i anit taking my 4yr old for a run! sorry but i wouldnt even be running.

nice idea though for when he hits 7 ish :D :D :D :D
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« Reply #25 on: 11 January 2009, 15:18:41 »

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i anit taking my 4yr old for a run! sorry but i wouldnt even be running.

nice idea though for when he hits 7 ish :D :D :D :D

Thats OK, and understandable. So make her read the book before beddy byes.... and maybe dim the lights a little - that puts me to sleep in a jiffy! :y
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« Reply #26 on: 11 January 2009, 15:18:55 »

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we got three girls and a boy 23,19,16,an 13 ( the boy ) the two oldest girls no problems no smoke, drink, one uni one cuts hair , charle no problem polite , good as gold!  our 16 year old girl ! f-cking hell what a f-cking nightmare, smokes drinks f-cking liar deceitful , no respect for no one, iv been nose to nose with her ( i know f-cking stupid )
trying to make her understand, and she almost has two fingers up at my face ( you know the look )

  they all very different and all require a different playing field :(

sounds like a bar of soap in the mouth time

my mother did this to me before god not nice.

my farther used to punish all 3 of us if one of us made a mistake then if we argue about the punishment he would double the smacks tho the back of the hand. god i had to gag my sisters cos my hand was so sore i got 3 smacks to the youngest's 1.
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« Reply #27 on: 11 January 2009, 15:19:28 »

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i anit taking my 4yr old for a run! sorry but i wouldnt even be running.

nice idea though for when he hits 7 ish :D :D :D :D

Thats OK, and understandable. So make her read the book before beddy byes.... and maybe dim the lights a little - that puts me to sleep in a jiffy! :y

me too!
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« Reply #28 on: 11 January 2009, 15:27:43 »

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we got three girls and a boy 23,19,16,an 13 ( the boy ) the two oldest girls no problems no smoke, drink, one uni one cuts hair , charle no problem polite , good as gold!  our 16 year old girl ! f-cking hell what a f-cking nightmare, smokes drinks f-cking liar deceitful , no respect for no one, iv been nose to nose with her ( i know f-cking stupid )
trying to make her understand, and she almost has two fingers up at my face ( you know the look )

  they all very different and all require a different playing field :(

sounds like a bar of soap in the mouth time

 trouble is she is sixteen and as big as me  >:( it would turn in to a punch up and me getting me ar-e kicked :-?

shes too old for that and if i thought it would work it would happen but it would make her worse :(
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we got three girls and a boy 23,19,16,an 13 ( the boy ) the two oldest girls no problems no smoke, drink, one uni one cuts hair , charle no problem polite , good as gold!  our 16 year old girl ! f-cking hell what a f-cking nightmare, smokes drinks f-cking liar deceitful , no respect for no one, iv been nose to nose with her ( i know f-cking stupid )
trying to make her understand, and she almost has two fingers up at my face ( you know the look )

  they all very different and all require a different playing field :(

sounds like a bar of soap in the mouth time

 trouble is she is sixteen and as big as me  >:( it would turn in to a punch up and me getting me ar-e kicked :-?

shes too old for that and if i thought it would work it would happen but it would make her worse :(

i remember when i was about 15 and i used to gob off at my mom all the time
my dad knew the local police and i ended up in a cell over night
not nice place
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