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bertiecbx550

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Bad news....
« on: 13 January 2009, 17:52:54 »

Well we`ve been told by the consultant that my mum has 3 types of cancer she has a tumor in her spine near the base that they are gonna treat with steroids and radiotherapy and that they`ve found cancer in her liver as well and to top it all they`ve found a benign tumor in her chest thats been caused by the breast cancer from 5 yrs ago.....The consultant has told us that the cancer in her liver can only be treated with chemo and that none of the cancers are curative they can only prolong her life and that has hit me hard today i`ve not cried yet and i just dont seem able too not even when i told my dad he had a few mins with her in private in the ward...The news has hit me like a truck espec the way the consultant told us like he was telling me that my car had failed its MOT and what it needed doing to put it right...Ah well this is life i suppose  :'( :'(
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« Reply #1 on: 13 January 2009, 18:05:03 »

Sorry to hear that mate. You have our best wishes at this difficult time.
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« Reply #2 on: 13 January 2009, 18:07:59 »

Sorry to hear this..

Our moms have special place in our heart..Can estimate how you feel now..

Tell her our best wishes..
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« Reply #3 on: 13 January 2009, 18:10:58 »

sorry to hear your news mate.

When my mum was diagnosed with Cancer her consultant didn't give us the full picture unlike yours, whist it is very difficult to take in knowing the full situation in some ways gives you strength when you need it.

I hope it all works out for you and your family
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« Reply #4 on: 13 January 2009, 18:53:49 »

So sorry to hear your news Bertie, here's hoping she's comfortable and pain free.
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« Reply #5 on: 13 January 2009, 18:56:29 »

Very sorry to hear this.  Puts other things into context.
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« Reply #6 on: 13 January 2009, 18:56:34 »

Sorry to hear the bad news Bertie. :-/ :-/
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« Reply #7 on: 13 January 2009, 18:58:50 »

 thoughts are with you mate, hope all goes well.
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« Reply #8 on: 13 January 2009, 18:58:55 »

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Well we`ve been told by the consultant that my mum has 3 types of cancer she has a tumor in her spine near the base that they are gonna treat with steroids and radiotherapy and that they`ve found cancer in her liver as well and to top it all they`ve found a benign tumor in her chest thats been caused by the breast cancer from 5 yrs ago.....The consultant has told us that the cancer in her liver can only be treated with chemo and that none of the cancers are curative they can only prolong her life and that has hit me hard today i`ve not cried yet and i just dont seem able too not even when i told my dad he had a few mins with her in private in the ward...The news has hit me like a truck espec the way the consultant told us like he was telling me that my car had failed its MOT and what it needed doing to put it right...Ah well this is life i suppose  :'( :'(

Doubt your gonna want too hear this right now but id seriously consider if its worth having the treatment...cancer is a devastating disease and my dad bitterly regretted having major surgery too gain a few more months,he ended up dying in a lot of pain after suffering for months.

My nan had various treatments over several years and again she just sufferd those last few years and didnt have any real standard of life.

Hard as it is maybe accepting the situation and making the best of it might be worth considering.

Really sorry for your news fella.
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« Reply #9 on: 13 January 2009, 18:59:27 »

My folks are getting on now. Dad keeps joking about when he "goes upstairs". Not much phases me but that does.
   I'm sure i'm safe in saying we all send our best wishes to you & family.

    Your'e in our thoughts Bertie. :y
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« Reply #10 on: 13 January 2009, 20:32:38 »

Such sad news Bertie... My thoughts go out to you and all your family at such a difficult time.  You know where we are if you need to let off steam :y :y :y :y
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« Reply #11 on: 13 January 2009, 20:41:42 »

My thoughts are with you and your family.  :y
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« Reply #12 on: 13 January 2009, 20:42:32 »

sorry to hear the bad news
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« Reply #13 on: 13 January 2009, 20:57:59 »

Sorry to hear your sad news mate. :(
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« Reply #14 on: 13 January 2009, 22:23:11 »

Sorry to hear your new's, thoughts are with you and yours......
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