I agree with Entwood and all others who have commented on the unnecessary personally abusive nature in some threads with swearing or not!:y
However, as a women I appreciate I am on a male orientated forum, and in any male 'space' be it in the pub, workplace, or with friends, swearing can be used to express simple anger or emotions on the subject in hand. When say discussing dissatisfaction with a distant collective group, especially when it causes frustration, then men can often use unsavoury words to describe that group who are well away from the OOF. i.e. The Government. On that subject I have been frequently known to utter the word 'bastards', unmasked you note, and then explain why. That in my book is good anglo-saxon expressive humour, and the men around me in the past would have uttered far worse!!

No, what I personally do not accept is abuse personally aimed directly at other members, usually just because they do not agree with them, whilst using gratuitous language for effect! This I am offended by, and will never accept. To me that just reflects a lack of vocabulary and inteligence, coupled with ignorance of other peoples feelings. This is what should stop immediately in my book!

As for your avatar STMO, I recognised some time ago that your 'character' or 'image' on the oof, but no doubt quite the reverse in real life, is one of being the hard, uncaring, unemotional alpha male. The avatar is just an extension of the 'act'. But, yes although I try had not to read it and just treat it as part of the rich fabric of life on the OOF (or should that be Mars?!!), I DO find it unecessary and abusive. So STMO, I KNOW you are actually a good guy, so please how about toning it down?