Hi folks...deep breath....!!
Had a bit of a rough run recently and now in a right mess...
We run our life pretty tight on a hand-to-mouth set up, with both me and my wife working. I have worked for my employer for 6 painful years and in 2006 they withdrew sick pay for "everyone".
Last year, being very stressed and under pressure trying to do a difficult job, manage the money, renovate our house (only way to afford one big enough) and have a family life, I got run-down and worn out, eventually picking up a run of viruses etc; mumps, glandular fever, shingles, noro-virus, but each time I have had to work through it to be able to pay the mortgage etc-but doing this has exacerbated the problem, prolonged the illness, led to the next illness and so on.
I moved to a new office last year and have made great progress for the company (again), but the office is very uncomfortable with terrible heating, poor chairs, no drinks facilities/fridge/kettle etc and I am on my own a great deal, so cannot get out when needed to get food/drinks. Add to the this, having our loo through another office which is often closed off for use by another firm, I struggle to drink enough and get to the loo when needed.
As a direct result of this, I have picked up waterworks infection that got nasty. I felt awful so went to the doctor first thing and he diagnosed UTI, noted my fever, prescribed anti-biotics and told me to go home. Knowing I would not get paid, I drove 20 miles to work and carried on, but during the day I got worse and worse and eventually locked up an hour early and drove (somehow-don't remember) home.
I went straight to bed, but my wife had to call the emergency doctor in the night, who came, called an ambulance and took me into hospital. I was 40 degrees and delirious.
I was in hospital for four days over the bank holiday on huge meds, morphine, nil by mouth, drip etc and was released for my wife to look after me. I was advised to lie down, not sit up as much as possible so the lymph nodes and pipes could drain freely.
I had to go back to work and struggled in on Monday feeling awful and very uncomfortable and just did what I could.
The time I was in hospital had off had to be taken as holiday.
Yesterday, I was again battling with work and went to a client's property and had an accident where I put my foot through a carpeted floor which concealed a repair to the floorboards with a large unsupported piece of MDF-I stood in the weakest spot and went through it, wrecking my ankle.
Another ambulance trip to hospital, day in hospital and now had snapped ligament and have to go back for more intense X rays on Tuesday.
They have said I must not put any weight on my foot and if I do, I will undo any healing. Of course, I cannot drive and am stuck in bed with a bedpan as my other leg is not strong enough to support me, even with the zimmer frame, as I hurt it too in the fall.
This morning, I asked my superior to come and see me at home (half mile from his office) and ended up having a huge row about sick pay. In six years of full time employment, I have had no paid sick leave and have been forced to take holiday when sick-which including up to today has been four week in the six years, all within the last twelve months.
I got told that they cannot plan anything because I am always ill and I am causing chaos.
I shouted at him for about an hour and ranted about all of the extra unpaid work/hours/projects I do and the fact that as the longest serving employee, with a family I should have some rights. After some head shaking, I said if no pay, I will sue for industrial accident as I have no choice.
The guy has just rang me and said not to worry, they will pay for the next week.....then review it.
The same guy who crashed going too fast and got paid for three months while in recovery. I got shouted at for bringing this up with the company owner previously as it was none of my business.
Any comments or advice? The clients whose house it was are lovely and probably not insured so I would hate to sue them, or anyone really. I have stayed 6 years with the company as there is not much choice around here and I have family/money commitments.
I am feeling a bit sorry for myself
