It is interesting, the relationships within a second marriage, would you feel the same if it was your own son that caused the damage? Koz step son will be watching when that happens, and it will happen. And you better be seen to be fair......difficult situation.....but I'm sure he didn't mean to do it, when is a teenager ever awake anyway?
Got 3 stepsons and Miss Vamps. 2 of the boys the elder and youngest are fine, middle one has been a pain, I will not way what I really think

His Mum was going to kick him out when he got to 16 but he has managed to get to 20.

No Job, can't keep a job, can't be bothered to get up to go, I have to subsidise him by feeding and providing accommodation, his biological father, a very wealthy man will not contribute anything and has not since he was 16, tis a loooong story

To be honest, if there were no Miss Vamps I would have walked a long time ago, and this would be nothing to do with swmbo, though at times I do feel 'conned'...
