6 years from a battery is probably abour par for the course, especially on a car with the odd electrical toy

Depends on the type of driving, like anything else. Lots of short journeys kills them quicker.
Modern batteries tend to fail very suddenly too. I remember my first car had a slightly iffy battery and I kept it going for months by giving it a good charge every so often. Eventually the probability of a bump-start got a bit too high and I changed it.
My last battery failure was when I stopped at a motorway services to get a coffee. 5 mins later tried to re-start car and the starter motor gave a very slight kick, the electrics went dead and the alarm went off.
My cousin recently started his Saab in a supermarket car park and the battery exploded all over the engine bay. Made him jump out of his skin!
RAC bloke who rescued me said it looked like the original battery and that in his experience they all failed after 3 years at the most (we're talking Renault here though). The car was 9 years old.
"Maintenance free" batteries all lose electrolyte like conventional batteries, IME. This is especially true if the under bonnet temperature has been a bit high due to the nature of the vehicle or the weather. It's normally possible to prise open the caps and top up the cells with distilled water just like any other battery. This has to be simple because they are shipped to the retailer without acid on the whole. If you notice them starting to falter a "bat-aid" tablet in each cell sometimes helps but on the whole modern batteries don't seem to give much warning.
Kevin