Malcolm,
Those symptoms seem to be very similar to the misfire I have on my 2.5 V6. It started a few weeks ago and only happens when the accelerator is pressed quickly with the engine revs fairly low. It is worse when the engine is hot especially a restart from hot and when hot the idle seems a bit unsteady compared to normal. Because it only happens under certain conditions it's not as easy to fault find as a continuous misfire.
I have had rocker cover gasket leaks a while ago and the plugs did get covered in oil, but there was no misfire. I also have had DIS pack failure, but that was a regular misfire on one cylinder all the time, so relatively easy to diagnose. From the feel of it it seems to be more of a fuel/air mixture issue than an electrical one, but I could be wrong. I thought maybe air leak bypassing the MAF sensor (might be worse at low revs/air flows) or a fault with the MAF sensor itself. I had a quick look around and found no obvious leaks and the Fault code warning light isn't on so the ECU must be getting a sensible signal from the MAF sensor.
Overall fuel economy seems normal as far as I can tell, but as the misfire isn't there much of the time I guess I wouldn't expect it to have much affect.
Sorry for hijacking your thread Malcolm, but the symptoms seemed so similar that I didn't think it warranted separate one.
Regards,
Steve