Ok, the silver bit on top of the engine, with all the bolts in, is called the "cam cover" (not to be confused with cam
belt cover)
This is my guide for cam cover gasket replacement, pictures will help!
http://www.omegaowners.com/forum/YaBB.pl?num=1225024176The cam cover is plastic, this makes the seal to the top of the engine block, where the cams are, this of course is big oily mess, so the cover is used to seal it. As its plastic to metal, a rubber gasket is used.
This over time, hardens, and no longer keeps a good seal, oil leaks out of the covers, and around the spark plug wells, oil will leak into them. They can go any manner of colours, as water/crap from the engine bay will make its way down as well.
Use some cheapo paper towels to soak up the oil, and re-fit as per my guide above, its a real nice little job on 2.2 unlike those b@strd V6's!
The aux belt is the bit at the front of the engine, the big belt which spins around when engine is running, it drives thing like power steering and the alternator

There is a tensioner (keeps belt tight) bottom right, 15mm spanner on this pulled upwards, releases the tension allowing the belt to come off. There are bolts around the cam cover that just unscrew
