It's unusual for the HG to fail on the V6's, although ISTR that there was a dodgy period around 1998
Although these tend to fail between the waterway and the outside... Very rare to go across the fire ring
Before starting work on the HG it needs a compression test to confirm this is the fault 
If it is then he needs the timing (locking) kit to time it up correctly. The heads may not need skimming but do need checking.
Hope that helps
Thanks very much yes it does help i just cant understand why the water is going straight out the exhaust, is there anything else worth replacing whilst there thought skimming the head would just make sure the job was the best to prevent any future problems
Thanks again
Brett
Brett, skimming the heads is only required if they are warped. This is (again) rare on an Omega V6 but may have happened, which is why I said they need to be checked by the engineering shop. They can then skim if required. The other option it to see if anyone here has some good 2nd hand heads

Other than the usual stuff there's no desperate need to change stuff, but make sure the thermostat is changed... Depends how flush you're feeling

Could change the Oil Cooler if there is no history of it being done

Other than that, just normal service type stuff (oil, filter, plugs etc)
I must emphasise that there must be conclusive evidence from a compression test (and only from a compression test) that the HG has failed across the fire ring/waterway before I would consider the HG replacement. Are you certain the water has been "burnt" and come through the exhaust? just checking because it's so rare
