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[STMO123]

What part of  TB's  plea amounting to  "can we all give it some space and not gnaw at the bones " did you lot not understand.

The bit from 'can' to 'bones'.

[LJay]

My take on these things is as follows, for what its worth...

Daz (badly) launched an attack (initially thought to be at a whole thread) at Ljay, with the deliberate intention to provoke a response (aka bullying)....and he got one.

Ljay did her best to sort in private, but he refused to speak to her and he carried on provoking.

Alert Mod had been used, I perceived him as the instigator and trouble maker, so implemented the short ban.

IF he hadnt deliberately been provocative, none of this would have happened.  He believes however he has done nothing wrong.

An analogy....If one of your wives, girlfriends, sisters etc were being raped....and in their defence, punch, gouge, hit at their attacker....would you punish them, see them convicted of assault etc?  No.  you would be up in arms if that happened.  IMHO the same principal applies here.

If you disagree with that, I will discuss further privately if required.

With respect .. rollocks..

Daz posted "terribly sorry old boy, I am a little tired" .. which Ljay has done several times .... how you perceive that as an "attack" is beyond me.

The other admins "might" have been ignoring the "alert" posts as they saw it as unnecceasary to take action

Private matters between Daz and Ljay should be private .. even from you in your position as a mad.... if you want to get involve declare a conflict of interest.

Comparing a rape with the word "terribly sorry old boy, I am a little tired" is pathetic and  I thought a lot better of you.

It wasn't about the terribly sorry old boy, I am a little tired, it was his personal attack and insult that came afterwards.  I PM'd him to ask what the problem was and got an insult in the thread. That was the issue not the terribly sorry old boy, I am a little tired.

[Gaffers]

What part of  TB's  plea amounting to  "can we all give it some space and not gnaw at the bones " did you lot not understand.

+1, this is getting boring.

[LJay]

Starting again Ljay ?
I have never bullied anyone in my life but nor will I be bullied by anyone.Funny how bullies often accuse others of being the bully.Reverse phsychology ? oldest trick in the book.I have seen you bully people periodically since I joined OOF,females in particular.Your treatment of Ali from Herts was disgraceful imo and should have resulted in a permanent ban.
Quite frankly,I think the only thing that has prevented that over the years is the fact that your Jimbobs wife.
Im afraid I have also lost respect for Jimbob over this matter.The fact that he banned another admin for 24 hours to prevent him from posting on OOF after his tiff with you is well known (so no need to keep deleting it when somone posts it) and has caused a lot of people to conclude that he should lose his moderating position.
You seem to want to have a position of dominance where no-one will disagree with you, for some reason.It will never happen, lifes not like that.

I've absolutely no problem with anyone disagreeing with me providing they will stand up and explain themselves and not just ignore a request to sort things out.

The fact I'm Jimbobs wife is irrelevant, I do happen to be a person in my own right.

For the record I'm not a bully but I do believe in standing up for myself and what I believe is right.

And to be fair Albs, it's pot calling kettle as you are downright rude and bullish towards people at times.

Can`t recall any incidents indicating those tendencies so would have to disagree

Threads he doesn't like, folk posting something that he's seen before.....

Maybe you are confusing personal opinions (which everybody has a right to) with "rude & bullish". Educated people should be able to differentiate between the two.

Educated people stay out of what doesn't concern them.  This was between Me, DLK and the Admin team, nowt to do with anyone else to be honest.

What I will say is that if you really think you're right, you stay and fight, not run off with your tail between your legs.

Now just who is doing the "bullying" now ??

Not bullying at all, a statement of fact!  I'd dearly like to sort things out with Daz as don't know what's kicked all this off.

[mantahatch]

What part of  TB's  plea amounting to  "can we all give it some space and not gnaw at the bones " did you lot not understand.

Well said MaxV6

[LJay]

What part of  TB's  plea amounting to  "can we all give it some space and not gnaw at the bones " did you lot not understand.

+1, this is getting boring.

Tell me about it....

[albitz]

Starting again Ljay ?
I have never bullied anyone in my life but nor will I be bullied by anyone.Funny how bullies often accuse others of being the bully.Reverse phsychology ? oldest trick in the book.I have seen you bully people periodically since I joined OOF,females in particular.Your treatment of Ali from Herts was disgraceful imo and should have resulted in a permanent ban.
Quite frankly,I think the only thing that has prevented that over the years is the fact that your Jimbobs wife.
Im afraid I have also lost respect for Jimbob over this matter.The fact that he banned another admin for 24 hours to prevent him from posting on OOF after his tiff with you is well known (so no need to keep deleting it when somone posts it) and has caused a lot of people to conclude that he should lose his moderating position.
You seem to want to have a position of dominance where no-one will disagree with you, for some reason.It will never happen, lifes not like that.

I've absolutely no problem with anyone disagreeing with me providing they will stand up and explain themselves and not just ignore a request to sort things out.

The fact I'm Jimbobs wife is irrelevant, I do happen to be a person in my own right.

For the record I'm not a bully but I do believe in standing up for myself and what I believe is right.

And to be fair Albs, it's pot calling kettle as you are downright rude and bullish towards people at times.

http://www.omegaowners.com/forum/index.php?topic=25313.0
 

[STMO123]

What part of  TB's  plea amounting to  "can we all give it some space and not gnaw at the bones " did you lot not understand.

+1, this is getting boring.

Well, we haven't all got exciting lives like you. To some of us saddo's, this is the highlight of our year.

[Gaffers]

What part of  TB's  plea amounting to  "can we all give it some space and not gnaw at the bones " did you lot not understand.

+1, this is getting boring.

Tell me about it....

I wish I could without being branded a bully, antagonist or a sexist chauvanist.  Rather than dance on eggshells I'll just keep quiet thanks.

[JamesV6CDX]

Not been through the user settings in this new forum layout that much, but surely there is (or at least, there could be implemented) some form of 'ignore user' function? Seems that would resolve many of the issues. Ultimately if people don't see eye to eye, just avoid each other?

Not everyone will get on or agree with everyone, so maybe just an understanding of that, and leaving it at that, is all that's really needed?

The next meet's going to be fun 

[cleggy]

My take on these things is as follows, for what its worth...

Daz (badly) launched an attack (initially thought to be at a whole thread) at Ljay, with the deliberate intention to provoke a response (aka bullying)....and he got one.

Ljay did her best to sort in private, but he refused to speak to her and he carried on provoking.

Alert Mod had been used, I perceived him as the instigator and trouble maker, so implemented the short ban.

IF he hadnt deliberately been provocative, none of this would have happened.  He believes however he has done nothing wrong.

An analogy....If one of your wives, girlfriends, sisters etc were being raped....and in their defence, punch, gouge, hit at their attacker....would you punish them, see them convicted of assault etc?  No.  you would be up in arms if that happened.  IMHO the same principal applies here.

If you disagree with that, I will discuss further privately if required.

That's a bit OTT
It'a a car forum!!!!

[Kevin Wood]

Please, let's Abide by TheBoy's request to allow all parties some time to resolve this.

Locking.