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[Nickbat]

Remember this?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/7326226.stm

Without cocaine, she'd probably still be around today...and so would Mark Speight.  

Stick to your beliefs. You could be saving her life.

Good luck.  

[prestigesec]

Remember this?

http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/england/london/7326226.stm

Without cocaine, she'd probably still be around today...and so would Mark Speight.  

Stick to your beliefs. You could be saving her life.

Good luck.  

Am gonna need it she is stubborn to say the least.

[amigov6]

I'm going to stick my neck out here as everyone else seems to be purer than the driven snow. I had my first spliff @14 & through my teens & 20's tried everything barring needles, i'm too pussy for that. I spent the said years around that scene. I've smoked, snorted, dabbed, gum rubbed, chased the dragon & dropped acid, picked & taken magic m'rooms in my biker/festival days. For several years now i've been happy with a roll up & a drink, i'm 100% drug free, & happy.
   I've just looked at the relative posts & no one has said they've ever taken anything. The law of averages says doubts this, but despite your lack of experience you have plenty of advice to offer.
   I'm guessing people wo'nt like this post much but i've never been one to shut up!!!
    Use does'nt always lead to addiction but it can & i'm against it.
    No offence, just wanted to add another angle. Guy.

[Nickbat]

I'm going to stick my neck out here as everyone else seems to be purer than the driven snow. I had my first spliff @14 & through my teens & 20's tried everything barring needles, i'm too pussy for that. I spent the said years around that scene. I've smoked, snorted, dabbed, gum rubbed, chased the dragon & dropped acid, picked & taken magic m'rooms in my biker/festival days. For several years now i've been happy with a roll up & a drink, i'm 100% drug free, & happy.
   I've just looked at the relative posts & no one has said they've ever taken anything. The law of averages says doubts this, but despite your lack of experience you have plenty of advice to offer.
   I'm guessing people wo'nt like this post much but i've never been one to shut up!!!
    Use does'nt always lead to addiction but it can & i'm against it.
    No offence, just wanted to add another angle. Guy.

Never taken anything illegal. Guess that makes me weird.  

[amigov6]

No mate not weird, just surprised i'm the only one with such a past!

[prestigesec]

No mate not weird, just surprised i'm the only one with such a past!

As a past drug user yourself then do you think i am being unreasonable asking her to stop?

[amigov6]

No mate not weird, just surprised i'm the only one with such a past!

As a past drug user yourself then do you think i am being unreasonable asking her to stop?

She'll stop when or if she wants to, sadly i doubt you can tell her & your social lives will differ because of this making things difficult. I can't offer advice because i only stopped when i became tired of it but i sympathize with your situation & my thoughts are with you.
   I hope for both your sakes she grows out of it while you still have your present patience. It can't be easy if you love her.

[davlad22]

How's about a bit of indirect persuasion? A bit daft but if you love her it's got to be worth a stab before your relationship takes a tumble. Maybe try and remove her from her circle of friends and perhaps stop her going out on a night, not physically 'stop', but give her a better option. Make her realise that you're better to be with than a load of coke heads. You two spend some quality time together, take her out for a meal, get down the pub TOGETHER. I'm sure she's her own person though, but you know her best.

Sadly it IS more common than anyone might think.

[Dr Jones]

The easiest / hardest question you should ask yourself (if you or her are serious) is...is this woman the potential mother of my children? If you say yes, then stay. If you say no, then go.

For some people recreational drugs can be a youthful mistake, for others it can be a fu**ing nightmare from which you / they never recover.

[amigov6]

The easiest / hardest question you should ask yourself (if you or her are serious) is...is this woman the potential mother of my children? If you say yes, then stay. If you say no, then go.

For some people recreational drugs can be a youthful mistake, for others it can be a fu**ing nightmare from which you / they never recover.

You've summed it up to a point. Mine was youthful but not a mistake. I enjoyed it then & would'nt want it now but it's given me an insight that only experience can.
   Although i came through it ok & like all of us work hard, pay mortgage/bills ec. i know many don't make it through. In that respect i consider myself lucky.

[Martin_1962]

Pinch it and flush it - they ain't going to report you for theft are they?

[amigov6]

Pinch it and flush it - they ain't going to report you for theft are they?

Well intentioned but no help at all. If it was that easy............

[humbucker]

so.. ahem... i guess she isn't a member of oof... you might want to clear your cache  

[doz]

I'm sorry to say you can't help somebody with a drug habit unless they want to be helped. You can hang on and see if it's just a fad but to be honest it will probably just end up in misery.

[prestigesec]

Thanks for all the advice guys and dames i know what i have to do just dont want to do it not slept a wink all night and she still isnt in i cant be arsed with this make myself bloody ill.