Surely it depends on what you believe to be right or wrong.

I have never voted for a candidate or party who I believed would make me personally better off. If I did I would vote Labour and claim benefits - until they fly the economy into a cliff face again.
I vote for the party which I think will do the best job overall for the country.
As for the social care policy, I see it like this. In days gone by, families used to take care of their elderly family members. That is largely not the case nowadays.
If family cant or wont take care of them, should they really expect the taxpayers to foot the bill for it, and then those same family members sell the home and assets of the elderly person, when they pop their clogs, and stick the money in their back pocket ?
Doesn't seem right to me.

I suppose it could have been left out of the manifesto and then put into the budget, but then it would be very easy for the Lords to defeat the government, so it would be a waste of time.
Speaking of which, I'm very surprised the Tories haven't put reform of the Lords in their manifesto.