You men will never understand it but it is the POWER held by that man, and indeed many men, that makes them "sexy". It makes us feel secure and could give us a good life with great children! 
Sorry, but I would never find a "loser" sexy I'm afraid. The two men that are the subject of this thread, in terms of 'packing a punch', have that 'something' 
8-) 8-) 
Women call men shallow 
:-? Personally i go for a lady with a good sense of humour, personality & if she has good looks then that's a bonus. It was also my thinking that women thought the same of men :-/ That's women for ya 
Wanting men that are strong and powerful is not being shallow. It is when people are judged on looks alone is when it is of shallow thought.
That is why so often very attractive women can be with men who cannot be considered pin up types. Women value men who can, as I previously stated, give then protection and all the things they need as an individual to bring up a family with, in a secure, safe and well provided environment. They do not need vain, self centred men who think more of the themselves than they will of their women.
Men on the other hand have a natural desire to judge women, and their suitability as a love (sex!) partner, in respect of their looks.
Both these statements are of course a generalisation, but it all does form the chemistry of male / female relationships. That is how a man like Prescott can be considered "sexy" by me, not certainly for his looks, but his personality and strength of character.
In all cases of course a sense of humour and a good personality is required, but often in varying degrees dependant on the couple. i.e. my sense of humour my not be to the taste of many, but will appeal to a magic few whose chemistry is right for a relationship.
Phew! I didn't think I would be going so deep into psychology tonight!
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