ok guys , first off i am totaly useless with computers so go easy on me when answering this question please

now i know me laptop is now old hat as its around 4 or 5 years old!!! however mate of mine has just installed a new wireless router with a 350meter range, my house is only 40 meters from his and my wireless is having trouble connecting to it!!!! it just says signal low or very low(what?) so is it possible to download a new driver for my wireless bits? strange thing is i can pick up 3 other wireless systems and one of them is over 130meters away, but they all say low signal strength no matter what?
as i understand it my antenna is built into the laptop surround?
it works perfectly well normally its just that the wireless bit is very weaK, around 18months ago the wireless stopped working altogether and a mate who knows about computers told me he downloaded a new driver for it and got it working again, so im wondering if it needs doing again? had to mover it into the beroom to get online here which is only 30 mters from his place!!! help!! hope all this has made sense to someone?
any help or assistance greatly appreciated but please not to computerish? cos most of its gibberish to me
