Oh dear.......Second one arrived this morning.....

Oh dear!
.......It cost a small fortune to get him a car, insure it the first year and pay for driving lessons, work, MOT, Tax etc, and the insurance this year, he still owes me £1800.00............
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We've got the very same T shirt!
We helped pay for the lessons, bought the car (birthday present) & a substantial amout towards the insurance, and our lad had as much regard for it as it appears your lad had. it does pi$$ you off! 
It's all up to him now if he want a car on the road.
Thing is Andy, this one is the nicer of the 2, if you remember previous conversations...

But he has really annoyed me over this, not repaying any money simply says he has none, but is out every night, not drinking but out and about. Some issues about him coming out of education as well,

and a step son as well, so have to tread carefully with swmbo But if he looses his licence the car will be sold and there will be not more help, he is on his own.....