so some nob end backs into your wife's car and she gets a verbal off the police?? how the hell does that work? i wonder sometimes whos side the police are really on 
21st century policing - its a bit different from what us stupid people fink it oughta be.
If we would just take the time to study for a degree in sociology, we would be singing from the same hymnsheet as they are. 
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1318499/Doggers-indulging-outdoor-sex-protected-victimisation.html
I wouldn't say verbal, but certainly an attitude of "while you're here let's see if we can pin anything on you". Might be seen as proactive, perhaps, but hardly an approach that's going to win the "hearts and minds" of the public, especially when they waste time making you jump through hoops then don't follow up on the real issue. 
After all, the type of person who doesn't have his affairs in order and above-board isn't going to cross their threshold in the first place.
Kevin
That's why I said that this must be complained about at the relevant station.
There seems to have been a remarkable tendency for police management to attempt to re-orient the very raison d'être for the existence of the police force.
This move away from traditional policing isn't necessarily a good thing (while in some cases necessary) as the compact between police and public has been all but lost to policing by statistic and remote technology.
The police force exists to uphold the law, apprehend wrongdoers, to ensure the safety of the public and to protect property. The fact that a police officer seems disinclined to do some of these things in this case is worthy of investigation.
The push by the last government towards the crime quota system all but handed police management a blank cheque: Rather than quantifying the efficiency of various forces, this merely created a bankruptcy of public confidence in the police force as a result of the disinclination in many officers to get off their arses and do the job they're actually paid for.
21st. century policing depends on technology and new measures to match changing crime patterns, but to abandon the basic tenet of the police officer being there to offer positive assistance to a member of the public in need merely asks for trouble.