No 2 kids are the same. Sometimes you cannot stop children misbehaving. I have 2 lads , one is like me , very fiery and independant , and the other is very placid like his mum.
My parents managed to, but then, as Kevin Wood states, it was acceptable to discipline unruly kids rather than the current namby pamby 'naughty step' 'dangle berries'.
Please be aware, I obviously do not agree with abuse, but (like many here I suspect) if I badly misbehaved, I knew what the consequences would be, and that it would hurt (physically and pride). 'Reasoning' would have been no deterent for me, as it appears not to be for many kids now.
A few years ago, at my old house, I could hear stones being thrown around my car. On investigation, there was some small lad smashing up my (already badly cracking) concrete drive! He said he was collecting big stones (rubble) for his dad. So I frogmarched him to his house, and his mother tried making out I was unreasonable, and it wasn't the lad's fault as he was only 4. Christ, I would have had a proper hiding if I'd dug up someones driveway
