I can tell you what NOT to get, as they either don't work well, or don't match your criteria. This is from my own personal experience with that tyre on the Omega.
Michelin PS2 - No grip in corners, and dont last well for the zero grip (20k)
Dunlop Sport Maxx - Good cornering/traction. Early days, but wear looks high (est 10k)
Dunlop SP9000 - Good grip, usable durability. Not available in right sizes any more

(15k)
Avon ZZ3 - Low grip, shredded mine to bits (4k)
Dunlop SP3000 - Didn't like them, trashed in 6k due to camber issues. Unfair to blame tyre for a geo fault though.
Nexen CP641 - Budget. Usable grip in all but heavy rain. Wear looks good, but sold car before they needed replacement.
Faulken 912 - I'd rather have a bad bout of piles. No idea on wear rate, they were only on my car for less than 5 miles. Avoid.
I am, however, fussy with tyres. In my book they are everything. Without them, you can't accelerate, stop or go round corners.