lets face it there are Gay people and then there are Gay people.
You the people that are Gay happy with it , content with a civil partnership but would prefer the same rights as marriage and why not. They go about thier Gay life not making specticals of them selves or making a big thing about the fact they are Gay.
Then theres the look at me i am Gay lets make a big song a dance about it, grab as much attention as possible, dress outragiously anything just give me attention. But at the same time reject me so i can be discriminated, cast out from society
who are they really trying to please and what really is the point.
I dont go out in high heels, fake titties, lipstick and a cucumber sticking out my booty to grab attention ( well only every other saturday), to me those people are just fake and i would imagine make the majority of Gay people cringe.
good example was doing a job in a bank this young bloke would strut around announcing how Gay he was and how he was waiting for the man of his dreams to whisk him away, never been with a man and when questioned about sex , what suck a willie no way, bottom sex you got to be kidding, but i thought you were Gay and so into Men...gay attention seeker. Would over react to everything
Like Millwall i have gay friends ( we all go to the same clubs

) and they are just normal people, yes one always seems to adopt a sort of femanine way

but they are just happy to mingle in with people and do not feel the need to attention seek Or would want a wedding to sensationalise thier relationship, same rights yes
If there is a rule or old tradition someone some where is trying to break it or change it, some things yes are outdated, others are just part of tradition. I am British but seriously wonder sometimes if I am actually living in Britain