Thanks Chris and Rob
, I like the garage idea although my drive ain't level enough, But there is a spot that is, I could park another car sideways in front or something..
What does everyone else make of the pictures of dip/main lights ?, Passenger side looks the worst to me, Drivers side looks about correct maybe a little high.
Presuming the adjusters are fine with a 190k on the clock it's doubtful probably very worn at the very least, How do I know the self levelling is working, Should I hear a motor sound as soon as I switch the lights on ?
Also I'd like to ask, Being new to HIDs I'm not familiar with the reactions of other drives, Dont see many car with HIDs around here, Do you find personally when driving a Vehicle with HIDs that you get flashed now and again ?, Sometimes I find 4x4s with HIDs do tend to blind a little more than cars.
While driving last night I could see the oncoming drivers faces lighting up and their glasses shinning back mainly on hills up/down, corners, junctions etc... Cars in front dipping their interior mirrors 
Yes all those clues are telling you the lights are high. Or one is at least. You'll see if you do that test. As you back away the beam should drop lower than the mark. If it rises above the mark they are way high. (Provided the drive is flat, flat being more important than level)
Self levelling suspension is completely separate to the head light levelling system. But self levelling suspension pump is behind the front drivers fog light. Ignition on, engine off and you should hear it run, takes a couple of minutes some times. If you listen to the pedal trick video the pump can be heard in the back ground.