Jeez, that took a fair bit of reading.
There's a lot of sense spoken in this thread and I'd agree that as the years pass the user base will inevitably expand and become less cliquey (I don't mean that negatively), this means that some old members may move on and often be missed. And when this new dynamic occurs I think humour can often be misinterpreted.
What I could suggest is either having a jokes thread sticky'd in general discussion, or have a sub forum for jokes. Either way perhaps make it clear upon entry that that area is completely informal and if easily offended is best to be avoided.
With regard to politics or current affairs such as climate change it's obvious that opinion will always be divided, such is the nature of these topics. It is a discussion forum after all.
What I think is important is what to do when someone crosses the line. I'd suggest instead of deleting posts/threads to edit the troublesome post removing the afflicting content and replacing with something along the lines of "
Warning. Posts that insult or are particularly hostile to other members will not be accepted.". If repeated perhaps a small suspension from posting, increasing accordingly if the message hasn't got through. This way people will see the thread/posts and know where the line is and will perhaps reduce similar behaviour? Just my experience of course from primarily one other forum which has an even larger user base.
I really like OOF and find it incredibly useful and friendly, something which I try to reciprocate. I've been on various meets with different forums in the past and had fun, I'm still quite new here so haven't been able to go to a meet yet. Although I am a little apprehensive because during all of my previous meets the average age has only been a bit higher than my own, where as on here it must be double
